- If everyone around you is having negative feelings and vibes about the guy / girl, it is most probably because they are right.
- There is no rush, no matter what he / she, the current radio song, your heart, or his / her family, say.
- You can never be too sure.
- If it feels like it is too good to be true, it DEFINETLY is.
- Wisdom always comes with experience, kiss many frogs, but don’t marry them.
- If you do marry a frog, make sure you have a social support network with a working escape plan.
- Never discuss your escape plan with the frog, it may be sabotaged or worse, used against you.
- You do not deserve to be treated like shit. No matter what anyone says.
- You deserve better. Believe it.
- If it feels wrong, it is. Don’t ignore your first impressions and gut instincts.
- Trust yourself, be strong in your belief’s.
- Always remember who you were before you met him/ her, and protect and nurture that independent spirit.
- Talk to people. Silence and isolation are the start of self doubt, manipulation, and loss of confidence.
- It is your life, not theirs, or the families. Only you can decide what is best.
- Forgive yourself. We all make mistakes, it is human.
- Always remember no matter what, your life will get better, regardless of your relationship status.